Good Words

Sermon 07/25/2010

A Church Formed by Prayer ~ by Reverend Thomas Cary Kinder
July 25, 2010 Ninth Sunday after Pentecost, New Members Sunday
First Congregational Church in Thetford, Vermont, UCC
Psalms 138; Luke 11:1-13

 

Kyudo (pronounced cue-dough) is a Japanese word that means “the art of the bow.”  It is the name of the zen archery that Ray Chin practices.  Kyodo looks from a distance like very serious, slow and concentrated monks taking target practice, and that is almost right.  It is a form of meditation, it is a spiritual ritual, but it is not just for monks, and the target it aims for is not the bale of hay.  The aim is inward, not outward.  The aim is to clear the mind, to practice detachment from all anxious ambition or judgment, to cultivate patience and achieve oneness with the target.  The aim is to learn to live mindfully from the center of our being so that we bring peace and unity and the gifts of the spirit flowing through us into every encounter.

This is exactly what Jesus is teaching us in the section of Luke that we have been reading last week and today.  He is teaching us a way to live from the inside out, from a clear mind that is detached, open and directed toward God.  He is calling us to be a church of people formed by prayer.

To see this clearly we need to go back for a minute to last week’s passage, the story of Martha and Mary at the end of Chapter 10.  Martha was driven to distraction by the many tasks involved with hosting Jesus and his disciples, but her sister Mary was just resting at Jesus’ feet listening to his every word.  Martha got mad and asked Jesus if he was going to let Mary sit there and make Martha do all the work.  Jesus answered, “Martha, Martha, you are worried and distracted by many things; there is need of only one thing.  Mary has chosen the better part, which will not be taken away from her.”

In kyudo the zen archer is trying to change from Martha into Mary, trying to let go of the distractions of many things.  These things include not only all the tasks involved with shooting a bow, but also the anxiety and judgments related to the ambition of success.  Martha’s many distractions included making a good meal and the anxiety and self-judgment about failing, and this inner turmoil spewed out to disturb the peace of Jesus and Mary and the disciples. 

The zen archer knows that only one thing is necessary: success means being focused on the present moment and letting go of everything else (including the desire for success).  This focus clears the mind and quiets the soul.  It allows us to experience our spiritual connection to the universe and be at peace with all around us.  It lets the Spirit’s power flow through us.  That is what constitutes true success in Kyudo.

Choosing the better part that Mary chose does not mean sitting around doing nothing, it means making ourselves available to be instruments of peace in the Holy Spirit’s hands.  Saint Francis of Assisi immersed himself in Christ the way Mary did, and tremendous energy flowed through him.  He formed a new monastic order, healed lepers, tamed ravenous wolves.  He traveled tirelessly, spreading peace and love wherever he went.  Mahatma Gandhi sat like Mary in spiritual practice at least two hours of every day, and throughout the day he tried to pray without ceasing.  In his late seventies during campaigns he allowed himself only three hours of sleep a night, but all the energy he needed to lead his nation to freedom flowed through him, a great spiritual force of nonviolence and love.  He attributed all this to his reliance on prayer.

Jesus says, “There is need of only one thing.  Mary has chosen the better part,” and then the very next sentence in the gospel is this: “He was praying in a certain place, and after he had finished, one of his disciples said to him, ‘Lord, teach us to pray, as John taught his disciples.’” 

This is not just coincidence that Jesus happens to be praying in the next scene.  Luke is giving us the answer to the first of two questions that the Martha and Mary story raises.  The first is, what is the better part exactly?  And the second is, how do we choose it in our own lives?  The answer to the first question is that the better part is prayer.  Jesus is praying, sitting at God’s feet the way Mary sat at his feet. 

Notice that when Jesus was done praying in today’s passage, a disciple asked him to teach the community how to pray, just as John taught his followers.  This, too, is an important detail.  Luke is signaling that the teaching Jesus gave to Martha and Mary was not just for them, it is for all of us.  John’s community was formed by prayer, and the church is meant to be formed by prayer as well.

In answer to the disciple’s request, Jesus did not say that the way to pray is to make longwinded speeches to God.  Jesus said the way to pray is to use very few words that we repeat over and over, a short, simple prayer that over time becomes inscribed on our heart.  The repetition clears our mind of the long lists of our distractions and desires.  It concentrates our focus on the one needed thing, which is the complete turning of our mind to God in the present moment.

The prayer Jesus taught is a little bit like kyudo, in that it has different movements that it leads us through.  The prayer in Luke is, “Father, hallowed be your name.  Your kingdom come.  Give us each day our daily bread.  And forgive us our sins, for we ourselves forgive everyone indebted to us.  And do not bring us to the time of trial.”  The first movement of the prayer is the naming and blessing of God as a way to focus ourselves.  The second is the invitation to God’s realm to come and God’s will to be done, as some ancient versions of Luke add.  They also add the line, “Your Holy Spirit come upon us and cleanse us.”  First we focus, second we open ourselves and empty ourselves in preparation for God to come, and then the third movement is to trust, trusting God for bread, forgiveness and protection.  Trust frees us from distractions that could disrupt our focus and block us from opening. 

Right now this church is working on many exciting things, some of which could easily feel overwhelming.  We are working to raise $60,000 to restore this beloved but weather-worn building.  We are working to balance our budget, to have a strong music program, to provide good activities for our children and youth.  We are working hard to establish a culture of nonviolence in the world through several constructive programs.  We could be a church full of burned out, resentful Marthas, storming in from our respective kitchens and kvetching that others are not working hard enough to help us.

Or we can be a church formed by the three movements of the prayer Jesus taught, a church that focuses, opens and trusts.  We can be a church that chooses the better part, that approaches its life of loving self-sacrifice and service not from an anxious, judging, ambitious frame of mind that defines success as meeting our material goals, but from a self-quieting, self-emptying, detached frame of mind that defines success as being present and connected to the Spirit, trusting that what comes from that will be best.

I have a dear friend who has been told by doctors that he needs to drop everything and focus all his energy on resting and healing.  He said to me the other day, “But I don’t know how!  How can I leave all my commitments unfulfilled, how can I let everything go, how can I just rest?”  This is not something we learn in our American way of life.  It is the exact opposite of the path to success that our parents and schools and economic system have taught us.

Yet the ability to let go and rest in God is essential to Mary’s better part.  So the second question the Martha and Mary story raises is, how can we choose the better part and then live by it?  Jesus says it is like someone whose cupboard is empty when suddenly a surprise houseguest arrives in the middle of the night.  The person runs next door to beg bread from a neighbor who is already in bed.  The neighbor may not want to get out of bed, but if the person persists with singleness of mind, eventually the neighbor will get up and provide the bread.

Jesus says, “Ask, and it will be given you; search, and you will find; knock, and the door will be opened for you.”  It is obvious that he is talking about more than bread, and in the conclusion to this entire section Jesus reveals the point.  He says, “If you…know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your heavenly parent give the Holy Spirit to those who ask.”

The better part, the one needed thing, the whole single focus of Christ’s way is to pray in order to receive the Holy Spirit, and then wait.  It is to persist in praying and waiting.  That is how we will learn to do our seemingly impossible tasks, like my friend who needs to learn to let go and rest. 

“The Holy Spirit …will teach you everything,” Jesus promised his disciples. (John 14:26)  If we do that one thing of praying and waiting to receive the Spirit, then other things we need will come—a guiding and empowering force will come; the ability to love will come; connection to all creation will come; clear mindfulness in the present moment will come; calm detachment from results will come; the ability to be instruments of peace and justice and compassion in this world will come.  As Psalm 138 puts it, “On the day I called, you answered me, you increased my strength of soul.”

But sometimes strength does not come on the day we call.  Sometimes we have to wait and wait and wait.  And that takes courage and faith, and it is not easy to choose, because the truth is, we could die still waiting for the bread we need.

Later in the service we are going to sing a hymn that has been important to this congregation over the years, James Russell Lowell’s hymn “Once to Every Man and Nation,” or “Heart and Nation” as we now sing.  It begins,

Once to every heart and nation

Comes the moment to decide

In the strife of truth with falsehood,

For the good or evil side.

We sang that hymn as we decided to become an Open and Affirming congregation twelve years ago and at key moments of decision since, and I expect we will sing it in years to come as we confront the evils of the world.  But today as we sing it, we can think of it not as the decision to stand up for a righteous cause, we can think of it as the decision preceding that, the decision we need to make in every single moment of our lives, the decision to focus on, open to and trust in the Holy Spirit.  That is the courage we need, the courage of Mary confronting pressure from Martha, the courage to choose not to be a church formed by the safe and socially acceptable path of compulsive busyness and the anxious fulfillment of shoulds, but to be a church formed by prayer.

Let us pray in silence, turning to God in love and trust, patiently waiting for the Spirit to move through us.  Let us pray and wait in silence…

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