Good Words

Sermon 06/06/10

You Restored Me to Life ~ by Reverend Thomas Cary Kinder
June 6, 2010 Second Sunday after Pentecost
First Congregational Church in Thetford,
Vermont, UCC
Psalm 30; Galatians 1:11-24; Luke 7:11-17

Many of us here are on journeys through the valley of the shadow of death right now.  Some are grieving the loss of people we love.  Some are facing a life threatening illness in ourselves or in others.  And everywhere we turn we are confronted with the news of the deadly violence humans are inflicting on the earth and on one another.  The shadow of death is an oil plume spreading menacingly through the sea, or a sea blockade shutting off the light of hope from an oppressed people.

This is the context in which we have read the 30th Psalm this morning, saying, “I will extol you, O God, for you have drawn me up, and did not let my foes rejoice over me.  O God my God, I cried to you for help, and you have healed me.  O God, you brought up my soul from Sheol, restored me to life from among those gone down to the Pit…. Weeping may linger for the night, but joy comes with the morning…. You have turned my mourning into dancing; you have taken off my sackcloth and clothed me with joy, so that my soul may praise you and not be silent.  O God, my God, I will give thanks to you forever.”

“You Restored Me to Life” is the title of this sermon, and it is all about the path that leads us to praise and joy, but the word “restore” keeps alive the memory of the condition from which we are being restored.

Thomas Lynch is an undertaker, poet and author of fiction and nonfiction books.  I read an article by him in the April 6th edition of Christian Century magazine as I was working on my father’s memorial service two weeks ago.  Lynch says that such services too often focus only on the celebration of the life of the person who has died.  They fail to deal with the reality of death.  He says that when they do that, they are leaving out the most important message, which is that our religion offers a path through death and the fear of death to peace and joy and more abundant life.  We cannot find that path if we focus only on giving thanks for good things, because the path to transformation and restoration begins at the gate of the Pit of death.  The path to the joy that comes in the morning begins in the darkness of a grievous night.

The deepest, darkest Pit in modern history was the Nazi holocaust.  Some Jews were able to find the path of transformation even in the death camps.  Some emerged from that hell to write profoundly hopeful, life-affirming books. 

One of the best known holocaust stories is of Jewish prisoners who put God on trial.  Leading lawyers tried the case before a jury.  A distinguished rabbi served as judge.  After all the witnesses and arguments and deliberations, the jury found God guilty of abandoning the Jewish people.  The rabbi pronounced God guilty, declared the court adjourned, and said, “The sun is setting.  The Sabbath is beginning.  Let us turn to God in prayer.”

Viktor Frankl wrote of his discovery of the path of transformation and restoration in Auschwitz.  His suffering found meaning and purpose in his love for his wife who had been taken to another death camp.  The thought of enduring for the sake of that love changed his daily experience from being all about death to being all about life.  He knew there was a good chance she had already been killed by the Nazis, but it didn’t matter.  His faithful love was what mattered.  It was the gate to the path.

I have walked with many people through the valley of the shadow of death.  They have all confronted some form of fear or anger or deep grief, they have all struggled, but for some, dying became all about life.  For these people, the struggle was to have their dying somehow give and serve love and life and light, to have dying be a time for continuing the fulfillment of their purpose and meaning.

I think of Rod Webb, who had just fallen in love and been wed in a service of holy matrimony to Helen Mac Lam in the last year or so of his life.  As his cancer advanced, all he wanted every day was another day with Helen.  He endured terrible suffering, he had bad days, but you could feel light and love shining through him, whether Helen was there or not.  His time of dying served life abundantly and lifted us all, right to the end. 

But I also remember a friend of mine who died with no faith, with no hope, with no purpose, crying out of a darkness of despair that dragged down all who heard his voice.

For both those who die and those who grieve, death can be a terrible place where we remain stuck, or death can be a terrible place that turns us onto a new path that leads to restoration and to more abundant life.  Death can be like a toxic waste dump where nothing will grow, or it can be like a compost heap that may be full of stinking rot now, but will serve to grow a garden full of beauty and nourishment over time.

We can learn how to transform death into something that advances life.  This is the wisdom that we find in our spiritual tradition.  The Psalm tells what one person did to find the path out of sickness and loss and the Pit of death.  “O God my God, I cried to you for help,” it says.  “You hid your face; I was dismayed.  To you, O God, I cried, and to you I made supplication.”

The secret of the Psalmist’s eventual joy was to keep turning to God even when God seemed to be guilty of cruel abandonment, just as those Jews did who put God on trial in the Nazi death camp and then turned to prayer.  This may seem too easy an answer, but it is hard to keep turning to the light when the light looks like utter darkness.  It is hard to keep turning to God when God seems not to be helping, when nothing seems to be changing.  Our spiritual tradition says that the act of this difficult but simple repeated turning connects us to the source of abundant life and restores us.

Today’s gospel lesson offers another perspective.  On one level it can be read simply as a miracle story designed to keep us looking to Jesus as we go through death and grief.  If we believe the miracle and keep turning to Jesus to save us, that simple faith is all we need to put us on the right path.  But if we have trouble accepting the factual truth of Jesus raising a man from the dead, there is a symbolic truth in this story that does not depend on the facts, and it, too, can lead us onto the path of life.

The whole story takes place at the town gate.  Jesus is just entering the gate when a man is being carried out on a bier.  The gate stands for the moment of confrontation with death when we have the opportunity to find the path through death to life. 

The man was his mother’s only son, and she was a widow.  A widow with no son was one of the most vulnerable and uncared for in that society.  The son’s death cuts her off from the abundance of life.  The dead man was all his mother had to connect her to life’s source.  This was her one chance.  Every form of death we face presents us with its one chance to find the path to healing and restoration.

 Jesus sees the woman’s plight and is moved by compassion for her.  The heart of the story, on which it all depends, is the fact of Christ’s compassion.  If the Holy Spirit is not the force of compassion in the universe, then there is no truth to the story and no hope.  But God and Christ and the Holy Spirit are the names we give to that compassionate, life-giving force that people have encountered for thousands of years in the face of death and grief.  Connecting to that force is the key to transformation and restoration.

Jesus tells the mother not to weep, not because her loss is not tragic, but because something else is about to happen.  It happens when Jesus lifts his hand to the bier.  He touches it and the bearers immediately stop.  Many along the route to the tomb would touch the bier in their agitation and the bearers would keep on walking.  But Jesus touches it and the bearers become still and at peace.  A peace that seems to come from beyond us is one of the characteristic turning points when we step on the spiritual path from death toward restoration.

Jesus tells the dead man to rise, and the man sits up and Jesus gives him to his mother.  The flow of life is reconnected.  The son is restored to his source of life, and the mother is restored to her way of abundant living.  The touch of the Spirit of God connects us to the eternal, ever-flowing source of life.

So what is all this symbolism telling us?

This story can be read about the way we deal with our own physical death and our grief at the death of others.  The compassionate, loving touch of Christ can heal us and give us life even as we die.  It can reconnect us to love and life even when someone we love has died.  It gives us the hope of life after death.  It may take a long time, but Christ’s power can move us from silence to thanksgiving, from mourning to joy.

The story can also be read about other forms of death, like the death of passing from one stage of life to another, or the death of our false self.  The touch of the Spirit can change any deadness in us into life and restore our true self to its connection with God and the earth and the one life we all share.  It can lead us to new, abundant life.

Or this story can teach us how the touch of our compassion can give life to those around us, and to the earth itself.  It can help lead a violent, damaged world toward restitution and sustainability. 

It may be that only going through something like today’s gospel story will enable humans to emerge from our current deadly era into new and abundant life.  Something has to die in order to be restored to life.  Our materialistic society needs to die, and within each one of us the worship of material things needs to die, or else we will keep right on with our deadly ways.  We need the touch of Christ to transform us and restore us to the nonviolent life God created us to live.  We need the heart of Christ in ourselves to feel the pain of the earth and feel the compassion that can motivate us to change.

Whatever kind of death we each face now is a terrible thing, but it is also a gate that can lead to a new life that we cannot foresee, a life that waits ahead in the darkness.  “Weeping may linger for the night, but joy comes with the morning,” the Psalm says.  If we follow the path of spiritual wisdom, turning to God, opening to the touch of Christ, we too may feel able to say in the end, “You…have restored me to life…. You have turned my mourning into dancing; you have taken off my sackcloth and clothed me with joy, so that my soul may praise you and not be silent.  O God, my God, I will give thanks to you forever.”

Let us pray in silence…

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