Good Words

Sermon 06/05/2005

Walking With God ~ by Tom Kinder
June 5, 2005, Third Sunday after Pentacost
First Congregational Church in Thetford, Vermont, UCC
Micah 6:6-8; Matthew 9:9 - 13, 18-26

Today’s sermon is about walking with God, and finding the sacred way in the midst of all our living. We find the call to follow and walk with God on the sacred way everywhere we look in spiritual teaching.

The prophet Micah says, “What does the Lord require of you but to do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God?”

The Tao Te Ching, the sacred text of Taoism, says,

If I have even just a little sense

I will go along the Great Way

And my only fear will be of turning from it.

(Chapter 53)

We pledge in our covenant that we will walk together in God’s holy ways, and in the way of Jesus Christ.

In today’s gospel lesson Jesus says just two words to Matthew: “Follow me.”

Last week we heard Jesus warning us that the way is hard and the gate is narrow that leads to life and few find it, whereas the gate is wide and the way easy that leads to destruction. If we have even just a little sense, we will see that there is a way we can go that can make all the difference in our lives, a way that is blessed and that leads to life and light. If we have even just a little sense, our only fear will be of turning from that way onto ways that lead to destruction and darkness and death. If we are wise, this will be the one central question and concern of our life, as it has been of good people for thousands of years: how can I walk with God on the sacred way in my life?

The trick, of course, is that the answer is different for us each. There are certain basic principles that can be applied to a variety of situations— like doing justice and lovingkindness—but there is no road map of the sacred way. The most important thing we need for our spiritual journey is to learn how to find the way in any given moment.

My mother used to say that her education hadn’t taught her everything, but it had taught her where to look it up. We cannot possibly be taught everything we will need to know to walk with God through every situation of our lives, but if we know how and where to find out what we need to know, then we don’t need to worry.

Our spiritual tradition has a three-part approach to discerning God’s will. The first is prayer—to watch and pray. To keep on the sacred Way, the Tao Te Ching says, we should be “watchful, like someone crossing a winter stream. Alert, like people aware of danger.” (Chapter 15) The danger is that we might fall into distraction or temptation and get sidetracked and end up walking with something other than God leading us.

This is easy to do. We are like the little girl, Sal, in the book Blueberries for Sal, by Robert McCloskey. Sal goes up a wild blueberry hill in Maine following her mother, but soon Sal is so distracted by eating blueberries that she loses track of her mother. She ends up following a mother bear, instead.

Like Sal, we get distracted easily by life’s pleasures or cares. We get lost in them and end up following a path that turns out to be more of a bear than a mother. We need to watch our steps with careful attention if we want to find and stay on the sacred way.

Prayer helps us discern where God is leading in our life, especially if it is not the kind of payer where we talk, but the kind where we listen and watch. Prayer can open our senses to hear God’s still, small voice or to see the signs written in invisible ink that mark our path, or to smell the scent of the way as a dog smells a deer track. Listening prayer takes practice and patience. It is not a tool we can plug in and turn on instantly. It takes consistent discipline and work on our part before we gain clear spiritual vision—but any level of effort in prayer begins to improve our sensitivity to God’s presence.

Prayer is the first and greatest help to finding the way and walking with God, and it makes the other two much more effective. The second one is reading the wisdom of the saints and sages in scripture and elsewhere. No sacred writing describes exactly who you are or what situation you face. No one has ever stood in the exact time and place where you stand, and no other person is exactly like you. But through reading the Bible and other sacred writings and great literature we can find perspectives from other people’s paths that might help us better understand our own.

C.S. Lewis explained why reading was so important to him, saying, “My own eyes are not enough for me.” The Methodist pastor and author Lawrence Wood says, “Reading is seeing with a thousand eyes.” If we read prayerfully, it is amazing how often we find just the word we need right now to help us find the way to walk with God. We find insights that we might not have seen with our own eyes.

The third tool is human help—the help of a pastor or counselor or other kind of spiritual guide, and also the help of a supportive group or congregation. It can be dangerous to rely on the first two approaches without the third one. A classmate of my brother’s decided that he was called to fast, based on his interpretation of spiritual reading and prayer. He did it on his own, without guidance or support. He fasted so long and so extremely that he died alone in his apartment. His case was the most extreme, but we can get ourselves in all kinds of trouble by trying to do this work on our own. Just as a lawyer who represents herself has a fool for a client, a person who is his own spiritual teacher has a fool for a student.

Reading might be seeing with a thousand eyes, but it is still just one mind interpreting the signs we find. It helps to have at least one other mind considering our choices, and the wiser and more experienced and more compassionate that mind is, the better. If nothing else, other people can hold up a mirror for us, helping us to see ourselves more objectively. We may think that we are walking upright and straight on the way, but another person might help us see that we are leaning or veering left or right. It is hard to be sure by ourselves that we have not taken a side path or gotten out of balance.

Here is how the popular contemporary writer Stephen Mitchell translates the same Tao Te Ching passage I quoted earlier about our only fear being that we might turn from the sacred Way. Mitchell writes:

The great Way is easy,

Yet people prefer the sidepaths.

Be aware when things are out of balance.

Stay centered within the Tao.

(Chapter 53) It helps to have another wise person’s perspective on how balanced and centered we are, and how well we are reading the signs of where God wants us to walk.

But in the end, we are the ones who have to take the steps to walk with God. Even with prayer and reading and guidance, we may still not have the perfect clarity of vision we’d like to have. We may have to choose to get up and follow without much to go on, like Matthew, the tax collector in today’s gospel story. A stranger walked by his booth and said nothing but, “Follow me.” We may be watchful and wise enough to know that voice when we hear it, or we may have to go on a hunch. Either way, we need to be able to let go of our pursuit of money or our allegiance to empire. We need to be ready to leave our old path behind to follow where God is walking instead.

Or we may need to be like the synagogue leader who came to Jesus after his daughter died. We may need to be able to give up the comfort of doing what our society would approve. We may need to give up our pride in our abilities and accomplishments, and get down on our knees and beg for help. Then we may have to be willing to get up and walk with God even when those around us scoff and scorn. Walking with God requires this sometimes. If we want God’s healing love, it is something we may have to do.

Or, like the woman with the hemorrhage, we may need to have the faith that walking up and touching God will help what nothing else has been able to help. We need to believe that God wants to walk with us and help us find the way to healing and wholeness—that God loves us no matter how imperfect we are.

The Psalms say that “the fear of God is the beginning of all wisdom.” (Ps. 111) I have struggled with that verse because I do not believe in a wrathful, vengeful God who wants us to live in fear. But maybe the Psalm means the same thing the Tao Te Ching means when it says,

If I have even just a little sense

I will go along the Great Way

And my only fear will be turning from it.

When our lives get out of control, out of balance, off center, and they do not feel good and things go badly, it is not necessarily that a wrathful God is punishing us. It may be just that life doesn’t work as well off the way as it does when we walk with God.

Once we get back in step with God, it feels so good. Then we know the good news Jesus was so excited to share. Then we see why it makes sense to trade everything else we have to get this one thing right. (Matthew 13:44ff) Then we know why the work of prayer and reading and spiritual direction are so worthwhile. Then we know what it means to walk humbly with our God.

Let us pray together in silence, asking the Holy Spirit to show us how to find the Way through whatever situation is confronting us in our lives now. Let us pray a listening prayer in silence…

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