Good Words

Sermon 03/27/2005

The Stone That the Builder Rejected ~ by Tom Kinder
March 27, 2005 , Easter Sunday
First Congregational Church in Thetford, Vermont, UCC
Psalm 118; John 20: 1 -18

Things are not as they seem. We have to keep reminding ourselves of that. Death seems to rule this world. The global powers of greed and violence seem to triumph over the poor, the nonviolent and those who seek to protect the earth. The problems in our lives seem inescapable and all-consuming and unsolvable sometimes.

Yet things are not as they seem. Peel away the tough husk of death or our worst problems, and you will find they are buds with something surprisingly beautiful and soft and green within them. They may look more like bombshells than buds right now, they may threaten to explode in your hand if you touch them but do not fear. Even if they explode, they may still turn out to be like touch-me-nots, the seed pods of jewelweed that explode when you touch them, but launch seeds of new life toward the hope of fertile ground.

Things are not as they seem. “The stone that the builder rejected has become the chief cornerstone. This is the Lord’s doing. It is marvelous in our eyes.”

Things had certainly exploded for the disciples. Their beloved and powerful leader had been arrested, tortured and publicly executed in the most painful and humiliating way imaginable. Things seemed hopeless. If they continued Jesus’ work, they could expect crucifixion themselves. If they did not, then everything Jesus stood for and did would be lost. The situation looked nothing like a bud. It looked like a tomb.

But the tomb exploded and a seed launched out of it and landed in fertile ground. It landed first in the heart of Mary Magdalene, an unmarried woman, at the bottom of society, and an impure woman, at that. But the stone that the builders rejected became the first in the new foundation.

Mary turned around from the empty tomb and saw a man she thought was a gardener. He wasn’t a gardener, he was a seed, but she could not see it yet. She asked him where he had put Jesus’ body. She was looking right at the risen Christ but she had to peel back layers of grief and disbelief before she could see the beautiful, tender, green thing, before she could see the green blade rising from the seed she had though dead.

It is possible to train ourselves to see in a new way. We can look at the woods and see nothing but stark gray bark and barrenness. But we can learn to look with the eyes of faith and see the buds swelling with potential. We can see with our mind’s eye that light and water and soil and air are working to renew life. We can see that the death of old leaves and trees and the decay of last year’s jewelweed are even now serving the life that is coming. We can see with our heart the light that comes to people at death, and know that what they tell us is true—there is a life of love and peace beyond the grave. We can see that death is not an end.

And neither is rejection or failure or betrayal or despair. Jesus called the disciple Peter the rock on which the church would be built. On Easter morning that rock was in sorry shape. He had denied Jesus three times. He had deserted him even though he had sworn he would never do so. Imagine how he felt. Imagine the guilt and shame and humiliation. Imagine how all the disciples felt as they hid in fear, confusion and grief. Peter was a rock, but a broken one, tossed aside on the scrap heap, not good for anything, especially not for a chief cornerstone in the foundation of a new church. He had hit bottom.

At the Maundy Thursday service Nancy Devor talked about how we find our story in Jesus’ story. Think about your own life. Can you identify with Peter or with those despairing disciples? What has made you feel broken? What grief or failing, denial or attack? What self-concern or self-indulgence has overpowered you and made you do things your best self didn’t want to do?

Think about your town. What hard words have been said? What divisions seem to be forming? What well-intentioned people have been put in a box with a label and shoved aside?

Think about your nation. What divisions seem impossible to heal? What qualities seem irretrievably lost? What changes seem hopeless?

Can you look at these things that seem like tombs and train yourself to see them as buds? Can you look at the hopes and dreams that lie on the scrap heap, broken and rejected, and see a future that is built on their foundation? Can you believe that even now what looks like death is a seed full of potent life, a green blade that is preparing to break through the hard ground?

Mary Magdalene is freed of her demons, restored to community and given a place of honor. Peter becomes the chief cornerstone of the church. The disciples who deserted and despaired receive the power of the Spirit. Jesus rises from the dead and is alive again. “This is the Lord’s doing. It is marvelous in our eyes.”

Easter is here to teach us not only that things are not as they seem, but that we can learn a different way of seeing, and we can choose a different way of living—different from the way our society teaches us to see and live. We can choose the way of God, the realm of God that is here around and within us now, a reality more real than what we call reality. It is a matter of our deciding to live in it. It is a matter of not settling for less, not settling for the way things seem, but seeing the way things are in God’s realm and loving that more and choosing to live in and serve that way.

A woman named Louise did just that. She and her husband Nathan lived in Mason, Tennessee. One morning Nathan got up, opened the door to let the cat out, and found himself looking down the barrel of a shotgun. Louise heard Nathan shout, “Lord Honey, open the door he’s got a gun.” Before she could open it the man had shoved Nathan inside. The man was screaming, “Don’t make me kill you.”

They knew who this man was. They had heard about four armed and dangerous convicts who had escaped from the state prison a few days before. They knew he could kill them. What they could not know was that later that day a couple would be killed. But Louise did not panic. She was unarmed, a 73-year old grandmother, but she stood her ground. She said firmly, “Young man, I am a Christian lady. I don’t believe in no violence. Put that gun down and you sit down. I don’t allow no violence here.”

The man looked at her a moment, and then he did what she told him to do. He laid the gun on her couch. He said, “Lady, I’m so hungry. I haven’t had nothing to eat for three days.” So Louise sat him down at the table and fixed him a good breakfast and told Nathan to go and get him some dry socks.

After breakfast she sat with him and told him how much God loved him. The man began to cry and told Louise she sounded just like his grandmother, who had died. They talked a while quietly.

Then they heard the police cars coming. The man said, “They’re gonna kill me.” And Louise said, “No, young man. Let me do the talking.” She and Nathan helped him up and out onto the porch.

She shouted to the police, “Y’all put those guns away. I don’t allow no violence here. Put them away. This young man wants to go back.”

The police put down their guns. Louise and Nathan walked him to the police car. The police put the handcuffs on him and they drove away.

Another couple was killed that afternoon. They had pulled a gun on another escaping convict.

Later Louise said that she had not been afraid. Nathan was, but she was not. She said, “I knew God was with me….I knew God would lead me in the right direction.”

Nathan and Louise were both lifetime members of their local Baptist church. The difference between them was that Louise could see past her self-concern, past the news bulletins labeling the convict a killer, past all that fear might have her do. Louise could see how things stood in the realm of God. She could see God’s love surrounding not just Nathan and her, but the prisoner as well. She could see with her inner vision the way of Christ and what it would have her do. She could see all that, and she loved it so dearly that she was willing to put her life on the line and live as if it was true. By doing so, she made it come true in her home. She made the realm of God visible to that young man and those police.

The realm of God is present now in your life and in this town and even in this tortured world. It is present under and around and over governments that lie and armies that invade and corporations that pollute and economies that impoverish. It is present in towns that are in conflict. It is present in homes suffering loss or abuse or illness. The realm of God is always present as a possibility in every situation, but sometimes it is hard to see. It takes our faith and actions to make it visible.

Easter reminds us that things are not as they seem. It reminds us to see with our inner vision the reality of God’s light that the deathly surface of things only obscures. The risen Christ calls us to love that other reality and to settle for nothing less and to choose to live in it even now, and to serve it with our entire life.

Like Louise, we can say, we are Christian people. We don’t allow no violence here. We don’t allow hatred. We don’t allow putting labels on people. We don’t allow divisions people create to keep us apart from those God asks us to love. We don’t allow darkness to overcome light.

We are Christian people. We see life differently. We see that this is no tomb. This is the empty husk of a seed. This is a death that leads to new life. Now the green blade rises. The stone that the builder rejected has become the chief cornerstone. This is the Lord’s doing; it is marvelous in our eyes.

Let us pray in silence

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