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Sermon 03/14/2010

Reconcile ~ by Reverend Thomas Cary Kinder
March 14, 2010 Third Sunday in Lent
First Congregational Church in Thetford, Vermont, UCC
Psalm 32; II Corinthians 5:16-20; Luke 15:1-3, 11-32

 

Today’s passage from the Apostle Paul is like a secret garden’s door that stands hidden beneath thick ivy in a high wall.  If we can find the door within Paul’s dense theological statements we can find the way into the garden of inner peace and world peace.  I would like to start the sermon by trying to part the tangled ivy in the passage.  This will take us through some abstract theology, but we need to struggle through it in order to reach the practical place behind it: the peace Paul’s insight can bring to our heart and to our home and community and world.

The passage in II Corinthians begins “From now on, therefore,” so the first thing we need to do is look back to see what Paul has just been talking about.  It turns out to be what we talked about here last week.  We read in Genesis how God formed humans out of the dust of the ground and then breathed the Spirit of life into them.  We are both dust and Spirit, or as Paul puts it, both flesh and Spirit.  Paul’s word for flesh is the Greek word sarx, which he uses to stand for our materialistic, selfish self, as opposed to the flesh that is permeated with Spirit and transmits its light. 

To Paul, Christ’s presence on earth has made the holiness of our flesh clear, because Christ shone the Spirit of God so visibly through his own flesh.  Paul says in the verses before today’s passage that Christ’s death helps us die to our selfish side and no longer live for ourselves, but live as Christ did for the Spirit.

This is what is on Paul’s mind when he says, “From now on, therefore, we regard no one from a human point of view.”  That phrase “human point of view” is a translation of the one word sarx, that word for selfish flesh.  To “regard no one from the selfish flesh point of view” means two things.  First, we no longer think of people as being on earth to satisfy our selfish desire for pleasure or power or pride.  People are not objects for us to judge or manipulate for our own ends. 

And second, we no longer look at anyone else as being just what is on the surface.  Thanks to Christ, we can see now that all creation has the same Spirit in it, and is holy, and has the potential to be one with God.  There is no created thing that is inherently bad, there is no class or race or religion that is excluded from God’s love, there is nothing we can do to ruin our potential to be spiritual flesh, no matter how selfish or hurtful we have been.

 Christ has opened a door for Paul, and he looks through it and sees the world completely differently.  Paul says, “If anyone is in Christ, there is a new creation: everything old has passed away; see, everything has become new!”  It is not that the world has changed; it is that Christ has changed Paul’s vision of it.  This is very important—the new creation has come through a shift of perspective, a shift of relationship to the world, not through any change on the part of others.

Paul uses the word reconcile to describe what has happened, and once he has said that word he repeats it four times in two verses.  It is as if Paul thought to himself, yes, this is it.  This is the word that captures what I am trying to say.  Being reconciled to God is the door that leads to peace, to a new creation within and around us, to God’s realm on earth.

How can we open the door of reconciliation, the door of peace?  Paul’s original Greek word for reconcile implies that it is a two-way action.  The door has to be opened from both sides.  The good news is that God has already done half of that opening.  Christ opened the door and showed the way through it.  But we still have to do our part of reconciling to God, and so we need to ask, what does it mean to reconcile or be reconciled?

It has three aspects to it.

First, there is reconciliation as between people who have been estranged.  To reconcile a friendship requires forgiving one another and making a conscious decision to re-unite.  To be reconciled to God in this sense means that God forgives us, we forgive God, and we try to be united with God in our daily life.

Second, there is reconciliation as between a checkbook and a bank statement.  This form of reconciling requires aligning ourselves with God’s way and God’s vision of the world.  Since God’s way is all-forgiving love toward all creation, we have a calling to that ministry of reconciliation and unconditional love ourselves.  That is our role in the world.

And third, there is reconciliation in the sense of reconciling ourselves to a situation.  It means acceptance.  Psalm 32 says, “Do not be like a horse or a mule without understanding, whose temper must be curbed with bit and bridle, else it will not stay near you.”  Being reconciled to God means that we hand our will and our life over to God’s care, and we follow God’s way wherever it leads, even if that requires loving and seeking reconciliation with our worst enemy.  We reconcile ourselves to our role as reconcilers.

These three dimensions work together to open the door of peace: forgiveness of all and doing the things that make for reuniting; aligning ourselves with God’s vision of the creation and God’s way of unconditional love; and accepting and following where God’s vision and way lead us. 

After all the thick and tangled ivy is cleared away, the door is as simple as this: if we are reconciled to God, we will see the world differently, and so we will change the way we act toward the world, and so the world will change around us as a result of how we act.  “Have peace in yourself and thousands will find salvation around you,” as St. Seraphim of Sarov said.  Be reconciled, and you will reconcile the world.

I apologize for all the abstraction that Paul has led us through.  Jesus was a more concrete teacher with his parables and stories, so now let’s turn to a more practical way of thinking about all this.  The characters in the parable of the Prodigal Son can help us understand how we can pass through the door of reconciliation to inner and world peace, or what can hold us back.

The Prodigal Son begins as someone who is completely focused on the selfish, materialistic side of his flesh and divided from his loving, serving, spiritual side.  As a result, when his pursuit of pleasure runs out of cash, he sees no way out of suffering, and he is full of fear.  He finally is reduced to absolute humility, out wallowing with the pigs.  Then he is able to let go of everything and return home to his father and confess the truth. 

This letting go of our selfish flesh is the first change reconciliation requires, but it is just the beginning.  The Prodigal Son comes home still fearing and expecting the harsh justice he deserves.

The father, though, sees his son returning from a distance and runs out and before his son can say a word he throws his arms around him and kisses him.  The son says, “Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you; I am no longer worthy to be called your son,” and he is about to ask to be hired on as a field hand, but his father cuts him off. 

It does not matter to the father what his son has done, all that matters to him is to reconcile.  The father has the kind of perspective Paul was talking about—he is not looking from a human point of view, he is looking from God’s point of view, a vision reconciled to God, and it enables him to forgive without question and to love without condition and to pour out all he has to give—the fatted calf, the best robe, the ring.

But then there is the third character, the older son who is as much a slave of sarx as his younger brother.  The prodigal son was greedy for the pleasures of the flesh that wealth and indulgence could buy, but the older son is greedy for the pride of place that wealth and dutiful work could buy.  He has not yet discovered his ambition’s emptiness, as his brother did, and so he cannot let go.  His father tries to show him the way through the door of reconciliation, the shift of perspective needed to see life completely differently, but the son cannot see beyond his selfish flesh that is lost in its hate and rage, crying justice, not mercy.

Christ’s message, like Paul’s, is that to have peace, we need to be reconciled to God, and reconcile.

The drama of the Prodigal Son plays out in the various levels of our experience over and over.  We see it first and foremost in the inner life.  You may know people who are unable to accept their own flaws, who beat up on themselves, who have an inner voice that sounds like the older son in the story.  It is good to have humility like the prodigal son, to know the truth of our weaknesses and wrongs and to feel called back toward God and community from our selfish ways, but then we need to be like the father who forgives even before we ask, like God who has compassion on us and loves us unconditionally.  If we cannot change the proud, angry, hateful voice of the older son within us, we need to leave it, lovingly and sadly, outside the feast and shut the door, and be at peace.

On another level, you may have known couples that could not live in peace because one of them or both of them judged the other and held onto grudges.  A friend of mine in his 80s was in a marriage like that and used to say of his wife that she was even-tempered—always mad.  You just want to sit them down and tell them that contentment is only a shift of perspective away, that if they would each be like the prodigal son and see their truth and humbly turn to one another, and each be like the father and focus on forgiving and unconditionally loving one another, they could enter that secret garden where couples celebrate and adore one another and dwell in peace, despite being just as humanly flawed as any other couple.

And imagine those same attitudes played out on the national level.  What if Israel and Palestine each decided to be reconciled with God and to reconcile with one another, if each played the part first of the prodigal son and then the father toward one another, instead of the proud, hateful and angry son?  What if the Unites States took this as our foreign policy across the board, to look at the world not from a human perspective, not from the perspective of selfish flesh, but to look from a vision reconciled to God’s?  What if we saw and confessed our truth and tried to reform our own selfish ways as a nation, and responded to all our enemies or estranged friends with an outpouring of gifts of compassion and love?

This may sound like a wildly idealistic dream, but it is the way that Christ calls us to take, and our work will not be done until we have transformed our nation and community and home and own heart to be reconciled to God in this way.  This is the door to peace, and there is no other that has ever been discovered.  It is not easy, but it is straightforward: all it takes is this simple shift of perspective from looking at things from a human point of view to looking at things from God’s point of view, and letting that guide us to reconciliation.

Let us practice this now in silent prayer.  We can know God’s point of view only by being silent, quieting all our preconceived notions, and letting the still, small voice of the Spirit speak through the earthquake, wind and fire of our self-concerned flesh.  Reconciliation begins in listening.  Let us pray in silence…

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